Frequently Asked Questions
Everything you need to know about anonymous random dating on AnonDating — privacy, safety, video chat, and how the platform works.
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Is AnonDating really 100% anonymous?
Yes. No account creation, no email, no phone verification, no username selection. You don't provide any identifiable information. The system does not store logs linking conversations to your IP after your session ends. Your anonymity is fundamental to how AnonDating works.
How does the random matching system work?
Press the Start button and our system immediately searches for another available user looking to chat. The matching is purely random — no algorithms analyze your behavior or preferences. If the first match isn't clicking, press Next to meet someone else. Average wait time is 2-5 seconds.
Do I have to use video? Can I just text?
Video is completely optional. Many users prefer text-only for maximum anonymity or because they're in public spaces. You can enable or disable video at any time during a conversation. Text chat works just as well for getting to know someone.
Are there real people or are there bots?
AnonDating has automated bot detection and requires human verification on the partner platform. While no system can eliminate all bots, the majority of users you encounter are real people. If someone seems suspicious, simply click Next to disconnect.
Can I filter who I'm matched with?
No filtering options by design. Filtering requires data collection about users, which conflicts with our anonymity-first philosophy. Randomness means you never know who you'll meet — that's part of the experience. Keep clicking Next until you find someone you connect with.
How long do conversations last?
There's no time limit. You can chat as long as both parties remain connected. Some conversations end after a few seconds if the match isn't right, others go on for hours. When you're ready to move on, click Next. When the other person clicks Next, the conversation ends.
Is there an age requirement?
Yes — AnonDating is strictly for adults 18 and older. We don't actively verify age, but by using the site you confirm you are of legal age. Underage users are prohibited from using the platform.
What should I do if someone is inappropriate?
Immediately disconnect by clicking Next. Do not engage. AnonDating does not store conversation logs or user identities. For serious violations or illegal activity, report to your local law enforcement. Your safety is your responsibility.
Can I exchange contact info with someone?
You can, but it's at your own risk and outside AnonDating. We don't facilitate or recommend sharing personal contact details. If you do decide to exchange information, be cautious and use your best judgment.
Why no profiles or swiping?
Profiles create pressure to present a curated version of yourself. Swiping reduces people to binary judgments. AnonDating removes all that — just raw, spontaneous conversation between two random people. It's what made early internet chatrooms magical.